Has This Type of Player Left You Heartbroken? The “I Hate Women Player”

The “I Hate Women” Player:

“Primates which have never loved early, never love late.” – H.F. Harlow

This one is the most dangerous to watch out for because he has the ability to do the most damage to you!  If you’re used to men always hitting on you, this one has a lot of appeal because he’s the one that is “emotionally unavailable.”  He instantly becomes a challenge to you.  He’s not like all the other guys or so you think!  He doesn’t give me the time of day!  And the game is afoot!  You feel that his aloof nature is simply him playing hard to get. What you don’t  realize is that he’s not playing hard to get, he’s simply emotionally detached, and doesn’t  like women. Sure he’ll take you for a “spin around the block” but the damage to your heart and soul may take years to repair.

A friend of mine, I’ll call him James is the stereotypical I Hate Women Player.  He’s a great guy. Smart, funny, handsome, but he’s got one serious demon lurking in his past.  When he was six years old, his drug addicted mother put him up for adoption.  He spent the next 12 years of his life bouncing from one abusive foster home to another. As soon has he turned 18 he went out on his own, but the scars of being abandoned by his mother still haunt him.  He’s now forty and still single.   READ MORE about the various Players, the way they manipulate you and how to protect yourself

Have you Encountered this Player Type? The Perpetual Child

This Player is easy to spot, he’s the one that refuses to grow up and still acts like he’s sixteen years old.

Don’t let the fact that he earns a handsome living as an executive, dresses in the latest designer jeans, and sports a very expensive watch fool you.  This is only window dressing.  Scratch the surface, and you’ll discover a man that is merely chronologically in his 30’s or 40’s (yes even in his 50’s) but developmentally he’s still just a teenager

He’s deep in his 30’s or 40’s and in some instances, he will still makes the time to play his video games, and take the skateboard out for a spin.  His weekends are usually reserved for “the boys” and “the big game.”

It’s important  for you to determine the developmental age of the man you’re dating as soon as possible.  In order for you to better understand the difference between Chronological Age, and Developmental Age.

Chronological Age: The actual amount of years the person has been alive.  If a man is 30 years old, he’s been on this planet for thirty years.

Developmental Age:  The age at which the person sees and responds to the world.  Many people never get past the teen years developmentally since they still see, and respond to events in their lives in exactly the same way that they did when they were in their teen years.  People wrongfully assume that because someone is 30 years old that they see, and respond to a person who has been alive thirty years, with ever growing understanding of the world, people, and how things truly work.  So the question to ask yourself when dating a new man is…. does he have 30 years of life experience, or 1 year repeated 30 times?

At first, the Perpetual Child Player can be a lot of fun for a girl that’s been used to dating stuffy men.  He’s so crazy, and fun, and is always up for a party.  Hell, most of the time, he is the life of the party.  He’ll be the first one to go on a road trip with you at the drop of a dime.

After a while though, you’ll begin to realize that something is missing.  He has no career goals or path.  He’s usually content with earning enough money to fund his hobbies, and play time, but you’ll never hear him talk about planning for the future, much less retirement.  Don’t count on having children with him.  He IS the child, and is way too self-centered to ever think of having to put someone else’s needs before his.

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Tired of having your Heart Broken? You’ve Come to the Right Place

“But not all men are worthy of love.” – Sigmund Freud founding father of psychoanalysis

After you read this book you will:

Learn how to never, ever let a man use you, abuse you, lie to you or take advantage of you.

You will learn how to gain new found confidence so that you understand your true value in a relationship.

You will learn how to quickly weed out the losers, posers, and men that will simply waste your time, and energy.

You will learn how to find The ONE.  Meaning the man that you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with

You will learn how to quickly, and easily identify the kind of man you’re dating, so you can decide how much time and energy to devote to the relationship (if any).

Imagine what your life will be like once you understand all the head games that men play?

You will learn how to avoid painful relationships.

You learn how to quickly, and easily decide which men are trustworthy, and which men are not.

You will learn how to protect your heart, so that NO man ever breaks your heart again!

You will learn how to decide which men are worthy of trust, and giving your love to.

You will learn what it takes for you to be with the man of your dreams.

You will learn how to how to tell if the man has no intention of being in a relationship with you and only wants sex.

You will learn how to how to keep a man once you get him.

You will learn how to how to tell if a man will cheat on you.

MOST IMPORTANTLY, YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO FIND A MAN THAT YOU CAN FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH, AND GROW OLD TOGETHER

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WARNING:  Many of the dating, and relationship ideas and concepts covered here are going to go against society’s conventions.  I’m going to ask you to withhold your judgment and simply think about the ideas I present here, hold them up to what you’ve experienced in your life so far and see if they make sense to you.

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