Are you being Played by “The Easy Player?”

The Easy Player:
This player is the easiest to spot. I call him the Easy Player because everything comes to him easy. Women swoon over him and he never had to make an effort to get women. He is extremely handsome and has always been. As a child he was extremely cute. By the time he became a teenager he had girls falling all over him. This kind of player has never had to work to get women, so intellectually he’s not going to be the sharpest tool in the shed. Men like this have coasted on their good looks their entire life. If you have ever been with this type of player, think back as to how you met. Most likely, you made the first move to meet him. At most, he may have thrown a basic line your way to see if you had any interest. That’s the most he will ever do though because he doesn’t need to do anything else.
He’s usually in excellent shape and was a jock in high school. Because he’s coasted throughout life on his good looks, he’s never had a need to expand his mind and learn things. As far as Players go, he’s the most one dimensional. He will also be narcissistic and think only of himself, or at the very least, put his needs way before yours. Don’t expect the sex to be good since he will be solely focused on getting his orgasm and going to sleep afterwards. If you climax, it’s incidental and consider yourself lucky to have had an orgasm.
Don’t mistake the Easy Player with the late bloomer though. The late bloomer is simply a guy that came into his own, as a man, later in life. Guys like this are inherently more cerebral because they didn’t have the good looks in their teen years to coast on. He may have had bad acne as a teen, been too skinny or chubby, and eventually discovered good nutrition and weight training. He eventually had a growth spurt, or transformed his body into its current form. He will be humble to a fault depending on how hard his teen years were. Incidentally, as long as his self-esteem transformed along with his body and face, he will make the best long term partner. To learn more about this and all the other Players click here

Your Desires, Cravings and Needs Are His Tools to Seduce You

Once he knows what your deepest desires are, he can then present himself as if you can get those needs completely fulfilled if you go out with him. Some Players will deliver immediately on their promise to fulfill your desires, while others will string you along for the entire duration of your relationship. He’ll keep letting you think that “it’s just around the corner babe. Hang in there.” Of course you wait and wait and he never delivers.
Let me pause now for a moment to point out an important distinction. There ARE men out there who TRULY want to give you the WORLD. They will go to Hell and back for you because they love you that much. So give these guys some credit, and time to make things happen. So, how do you tell the difference between a man that actually wants to fulfill your desires, versus a Player that is just stringing you along? One word: ACTIONS! The sincere man will be doing something that you can see, to fulfill your desires. A Player, will talk, and talk, and talk, and never lift a finger.
Don’t underestimate the power of this tactic. Politicians get elected time and time again by promising their constituents whatever they want. Of course they never fulfill ANY of the desires of their electorate, yet people still fall for the games, deceit and lies. Why? Because we can easily become blinded by our emotions when we deeply want something.
The best antidote to keep a Player from using your desires to manipulate you is to be so complete as a woman, that you don’t NEED him to help you get anything. If you desire financial security, learn what it takes to create multiple streams of income. If you desire Love, surround yourself with loving healthy people that help fulfill part of that desire. Of course, the love of friends, family, and even a pet isn’t the same as the love of a man that you’re in a committed relationship with, however, having SOME love in your life will make you less likely to get used and abused.
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