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Mr. Bigger, Better Deal a.k.a The BBD Player:

The BBD Player is a close cousin to the Perpetual Child. He sees life as a nonstop stop game of one up man ship. “Can I find a hotter girl? Can I find a younger girl? Can I find a freakier girl in the bedroom? His problem is based on the fact that he has unrealistic expectations of finding what he feels would be the ideal woman. Of course, he’s never going to find her because she doesn’t exist, but that doesn’t stop him from blowing through girl, after girl in this endless search. Inevitably, a relationship with him is short lived because he will start making up reasons to criticize you so he can pick fights with you. During this time, he will be actively courting one or more women that he feels may reach is very high (yet unrealistic ideals) BBD Players end up being the creepy old guy at the club, because he doesn’t realize that he’s way past his expiration date, and still thinks he can hook up with the young hotties.

Are you being Played by “The Easy Player?”

The Easy Player:
This player is the easiest to spot. I call him the Easy Player because everything comes to him easy. Women swoon over him and he never had to make an effort to get women. He is extremely handsome and has always been. As a child he was extremely cute. By the time he became a teenager he had girls falling all over him. This kind of player has never had to work to get women, so intellectually he’s not going to be the sharpest tool in the shed. Men like this have coasted on their good looks their entire life. If you have ever been with this type of player, think back as to how you met. Most likely, you made the first move to meet him. At most, he may have thrown a basic line your way to see if you had any interest. That’s the most he will ever do though because he doesn’t need to do anything else.
He’s usually in excellent shape and was a jock in high school. Because he’s coasted throughout life on his good looks, he’s never had a need to expand his mind and learn things. As far as Players go, he’s the most one dimensional. He will also be narcissistic and think only of himself, or at the very least, put his needs way before yours. Don’t expect the sex to be good since he will be solely focused on getting his orgasm and going to sleep afterwards. If you climax, it’s incidental and consider yourself lucky to have had an orgasm.
Don’t mistake the Easy Player with the late bloomer though. The late bloomer is simply a guy that came into his own, as a man, later in life. Guys like this are inherently more cerebral because they didn’t have the good looks in their teen years to coast on. He may have had bad acne as a teen, been too skinny or chubby, and eventually discovered good nutrition and weight training. He eventually had a growth spurt, or transformed his body into its current form. He will be humble to a fault depending on how hard his teen years were. Incidentally, as long as his self-esteem transformed along with his body and face, he will make the best long term partner. To learn more about this and all the other Players click here

Has This Type of Player Left You Heartbroken? The “I Hate Women Player”

The “I Hate Women” Player:

“Primates which have never loved early, never love late.” – H.F. Harlow

This one is the most dangerous to watch out for because he has the ability to do the most damage to you!  If you’re used to men always hitting on you, this one has a lot of appeal because he’s the one that is “emotionally unavailable.”  He instantly becomes a challenge to you.  He’s not like all the other guys or so you think!  He doesn’t give me the time of day!  And the game is afoot!  You feel that his aloof nature is simply him playing hard to get. What you don’t  realize is that he’s not playing hard to get, he’s simply emotionally detached, and doesn’t  like women. Sure he’ll take you for a “spin around the block” but the damage to your heart and soul may take years to repair.

A friend of mine, I’ll call him James is the stereotypical I Hate Women Player.  He’s a great guy. Smart, funny, handsome, but he’s got one serious demon lurking in his past.  When he was six years old, his drug addicted mother put him up for adoption.  He spent the next 12 years of his life bouncing from one abusive foster home to another. As soon has he turned 18 he went out on his own, but the scars of being abandoned by his mother still haunt him.  He’s now forty and still single.   READ MORE about the various Players, the way they manipulate you and how to protect yourself