“Primates which have never loved early, never love late.” – H.F. Harlow
This one is the most dangerous to watch out for because he has the ability to do the most damage to you! If you’re used to men always hitting on you, this one has a lot of appeal because he’s the one that is “emotionally unavailable.” He instantly becomes a challenge to you. He’s not like all the other guys or so you think! He doesn’t give me the time of day! And the game is afoot! You feel that his aloof nature is simply him playing hard to get. What you don’t realize is that he’s not playing hard to get, he’s simply emotionally detached, and doesn’t like women. Sure he’ll take you for a “spin around the block” but the damage to your heart and soul may take years to repair.
A friend of mine, I’ll call him James is the stereotypical I Hate Women Player. He’s a great guy. Smart, funny, handsome, but he’s got one serious demon lurking in his past. When he was six years old, his drug addicted mother put him up for adoption. He spent the next 12 years of his life bouncing from one abusive foster home to another. As soon has he turned 18 he went out on his own, but the scars of being abandoned by his mother still haunt him. He’s now forty and still single.
This type of Player loves apps like Tindr because it makes it easy for him to find women to hook up with without having to invest anything in her emotionally. He knows it’s a numbers game, so he swipes right enough times and a few women will respond. He doesn’t need a lot of matches in order for him to get laid on a regular basis.
Avoid this Player at all costs. You CAN NOT heal him!