Are you being Played by “The Easy Player?”

The Easy Player:
This player is the easiest to spot. I call him the Easy Player because everything comes to him easy. Women swoon over him and he never had to make an effort to get women. He is extremely handsome and has always been. As a child he was extremely cute. By the time he became a teenager he had girls falling all over him. This kind of player has never had to work to get women, so intellectually he’s not going to be the sharpest tool in the shed. Men like this have coasted on their good looks their entire life. If you have ever been with this type of player, think back as to how you met. Most likely, you made the first move to meet him. At most, he may have thrown a basic line your way to see if you had any interest. That’s the most he will ever do though because he doesn’t need to do anything else.
He’s usually in excellent shape and was a jock in high school. Because he’s coasted throughout life on his good looks, he’s never had a need to expand his mind and learn things. As far as Players go, he’s the most one dimensional. He will also be narcissistic and think only of himself, or at the very least, put his needs way before yours. Don’t expect the sex to be good since he will be solely focused on getting his orgasm and going to sleep afterwards. If you climax, it’s incidental and consider yourself lucky to have had an orgasm.
Don’t mistake the Easy Player with the late bloomer though. The late bloomer is simply a guy that came into his own, as a man, later in life. Guys like this are inherently more cerebral because they didn’t have the good looks in their teen years to coast on. He may have had bad acne as a teen, been too skinny or chubby, and eventually discovered good nutrition and weight training. He eventually had a growth spurt, or transformed his body into its current form. He will be humble to a fault depending on how hard his teen years were. Incidentally, as long as his self-esteem transformed along with his body and face, he will make the best long term partner. To learn more about this and all the other Players click here

Your Desires, Cravings and Needs Are His Tools to Seduce You

Once he knows what your deepest desires are, he can then present himself as if you can get those needs completely fulfilled if you go out with him. Some Players will deliver immediately on their promise to fulfill your desires, while others will string you along for the entire duration of your relationship. He’ll keep letting you think that “it’s just around the corner babe. Hang in there.” Of course you wait and wait and he never delivers.
Let me pause now for a moment to point out an important distinction. There ARE men out there who TRULY want to give you the WORLD. They will go to Hell and back for you because they love you that much. So give these guys some credit, and time to make things happen. So, how do you tell the difference between a man that actually wants to fulfill your desires, versus a Player that is just stringing you along? One word: ACTIONS! The sincere man will be doing something that you can see, to fulfill your desires. A Player, will talk, and talk, and talk, and never lift a finger.
Don’t underestimate the power of this tactic. Politicians get elected time and time again by promising their constituents whatever they want. Of course they never fulfill ANY of the desires of their electorate, yet people still fall for the games, deceit and lies. Why? Because we can easily become blinded by our emotions when we deeply want something.
The best antidote to keep a Player from using your desires to manipulate you is to be so complete as a woman, that you don’t NEED him to help you get anything. If you desire financial security, learn what it takes to create multiple streams of income. If you desire Love, surround yourself with loving healthy people that help fulfill part of that desire. Of course, the love of friends, family, and even a pet isn’t the same as the love of a man that you’re in a committed relationship with, however, having SOME love in your life will make you less likely to get used and abused.
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Has This Type of Player Left You Heartbroken? The “I Hate Women Player”

The “I Hate Women” Player:

“Primates which have never loved early, never love late.” – H.F. Harlow

This one is the most dangerous to watch out for because he has the ability to do the most damage to you!  If you’re used to men always hitting on you, this one has a lot of appeal because he’s the one that is “emotionally unavailable.”  He instantly becomes a challenge to you.  He’s not like all the other guys or so you think!  He doesn’t give me the time of day!  And the game is afoot!  You feel that his aloof nature is simply him playing hard to get. What you don’t  realize is that he’s not playing hard to get, he’s simply emotionally detached, and doesn’t  like women. Sure he’ll take you for a “spin around the block” but the damage to your heart and soul may take years to repair.

A friend of mine, I’ll call him James is the stereotypical I Hate Women Player.  He’s a great guy. Smart, funny, handsome, but he’s got one serious demon lurking in his past.  When he was six years old, his drug addicted mother put him up for adoption.  He spent the next 12 years of his life bouncing from one abusive foster home to another. As soon has he turned 18 he went out on his own, but the scars of being abandoned by his mother still haunt him.  He’s now forty and still single.   READ MORE about the various Players, the way they manipulate you and how to protect yourself

Have you Encountered this Player Type? The Perpetual Child

This Player is easy to spot, he’s the one that refuses to grow up and still acts like he’s sixteen years old.

Don’t let the fact that he earns a handsome living as an executive, dresses in the latest designer jeans, and sports a very expensive watch fool you.  This is only window dressing.  Scratch the surface, and you’ll discover a man that is merely chronologically in his 30’s or 40’s (yes even in his 50’s) but developmentally he’s still just a teenager

He’s deep in his 30’s or 40’s and in some instances, he will still makes the time to play his video games, and take the skateboard out for a spin.  His weekends are usually reserved for “the boys” and “the big game.”

It’s important  for you to determine the developmental age of the man you’re dating as soon as possible.  In order for you to better understand the difference between Chronological Age, and Developmental Age.

Chronological Age: The actual amount of years the person has been alive.  If a man is 30 years old, he’s been on this planet for thirty years.

Developmental Age:  The age at which the person sees and responds to the world.  Many people never get past the teen years developmentally since they still see, and respond to events in their lives in exactly the same way that they did when they were in their teen years.  People wrongfully assume that because someone is 30 years old that they see, and respond to a person who has been alive thirty years, with ever growing understanding of the world, people, and how things truly work.  So the question to ask yourself when dating a new man is…. does he have 30 years of life experience, or 1 year repeated 30 times?

At first, the Perpetual Child Player can be a lot of fun for a girl that’s been used to dating stuffy men.  He’s so crazy, and fun, and is always up for a party.  Hell, most of the time, he is the life of the party.  He’ll be the first one to go on a road trip with you at the drop of a dime.

After a while though, you’ll begin to realize that something is missing.  He has no career goals or path.  He’s usually content with earning enough money to fund his hobbies, and play time, but you’ll never hear him talk about planning for the future, much less retirement.  Don’t count on having children with him.  He IS the child, and is way too self-centered to ever think of having to put someone else’s needs before his.

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